Beginner Tips to Help You Make Cuckolding Work for You

Is the idea of your partner sleeping with someone else turning you on? Don’t feel worried about these kinds of fantasies. You probably have a cuckolding fetish and you’re not alone.

Studies suggest that approximately 52 percent of heterosexual men, 26 percent of hetero women, 66 percent of gay men and 42 percent of gay women have a cuckold fetish.

Being new to the concept could make it sound a bit alien but the following guide will acquaint you with the fantasy and the ways to make it work for you.

How to Introduce Cuckolding to Your Sex Routine

Like other sexual fantasies that involve the introduction of a third party, cuckolding is easier said than done.

The first thing you need to do is talk about it with your partner. Choose the timing wisely. Bringing the concept to light early on in the relationship is probably not the smartest thing to do. It’s better to discuss such fantasies once you have established trust and you have a better concept of each other’s sexual preferences.

If they seem open to the idea, the time will come to determine ways that cuckolding can be introduced.

Before that happens, discuss boundaries and set clear limits of what would be permissible and what’s completely off limits. Knowing the scope of the cuckold fantasy execution will give you a clear frame for the action to occur without anyone feeling let down.

Cuckolding without a Third Party?

While the idea can be a massive turn on, many people will not be ready to bring another person in their relationship dynamic.

If that’s the case for you, consider some alternative ways to make cuckolding work.

Having your partner engage in cybersex with someone is a safe alternative to traditional cuckolding. You will be in control of the dynamics and you’ll also get a good sense of what bringing a third wheel in the relationship is going to feel like.

For many people, the most appealing aspect of cuckolding is a change in power dynamics. If that’s the case for you, try some dominance and submission play within your relationship. Pegging may be an interesting sexual concept to explore with your partner. The same applies to employing impact play items like a BDSM riding crop.

Using porn and doing some roleplay will also help you act out the fantasy without seeking a third partner.

Cuckolding Does and Don’ts

If you feel ready for actual cuckolding, the following rules will help you enjoy the fantasy without a breach of trust occurring.

First of all, take it slow. A fantasy is one thing. Doing cuckolding in real life is very different. The experience can result in strong, unexpected emotions. Don’t force yourselves to achieve a certain end result. Make sure there’s enough time to process all aspects of the experience and decide whether moving forward is a good idea.

Discuss all of the boundaries with each other, as well as the third partner you’re going to bring into the bedroom. Don’t assume anything or take boundaries for granted. Outline the activities that can occur and the ones that are completely off limits. You are the ones who will decide the scope and extent of the cuckolding fantasy.

Finally, don’t pressure each other into stuff that you don’t feel ready to do. If there is any pressure or coercion, at least one of you will end up regretting the new dynamic. Cuckolding is the kind of sexual fantasy that both of you need to embrace wholeheartedly. If one person is hesitant about making things happen, you should probably postpone the realization of the fantasy to a future moment. A word of caution before wrapping things up – always make safety a priority. Everyone involved in a cuckolding scenario should get tested for STDs before the action takes place. Barrier contraception is another essential and not an optional element. If you plan to be using and sharing sex toys, make sure these are sterilized and thoroughly washed. Putting a condom on a penetrative sex toy is another way to reduce the risk of STI transmission.

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